GROW TOGETHER WITH
Enneagram Couples Coaching
Foster deeper connection, intimacy
and mutual growth with your partner.
Discover a new approach to self-understanding and connection with your partner using
the Enneagram
Through Enneagram-based coaching, we help couples and individuals move beyond confusion, overwhelm, and unfulfilling patterns, guiding you toward clarity, confidence, and deeper connection with yourselves and each other.
This isn't just about solving problems—it's about seeing yourself more fully, supporting each other’s growth, and stepping into a life of meaning and balance.
Enneagram Couples Coaching Focuses on
IMPROVED SELF-AWARENESS
& self-OWNERSHIP
Couples gain a deeper understanding of their own personality patterns, motivations, and behaviors, which reduces blame and fosters personal responsibility.
By focusing on their own growth, each partner contributes positively to the relationship, creating a foundation of respect and empathy.
ENHANCED COMMUNICATION & CONNECTION with each other
Through Enneagram coaching, couples learn to recognize and adjust unhelpful dynamics that keep them feeling stuck.
This awareness leads to more open, honest communication, paving the way for deeper connection and intimacy while fostering non-judgmental understanding of each other's perspectives.
EMPOWERED,
SOLUTION-FOCUSED GROWTH
Enneagram coaching provides couples with practical, actionable steps to address current challenges without becoming overwhelmed by past issues.
Couples leave sessions feeling more empowered, hopeful, and aligned in their relationship goals, equipped with strategies to support each other and sustain a balanced partnership.
“Arguments that once lasted for days are now opportunities for growth and understanding.”
"Before working with Wilder, we struggled to communicate and connect because of individual issues. Minor disagreements would escalate into major arguments that felt impossible to resolve. Wilder’s Enneagram-based coaching gave us a foundational understanding of each other, providing a shared language to express our needs and fears without conflict.
Thanks to his practical advice and guidance, we’ve let go of assumptions, improved our communication, and transformed our day-to-day interactions into something much more positive and fulfilling. Arguments that once lasted for days are now opportunities for growth and understanding. Wilder’s thoughtful approach, actionable tools, and ability to bridge our communication gaps have truly changed our marriage for the better.
If you’re considering couples counseling, don’t wait until you're in crisis—Wilder’s coaching is invaluable for any couple looking to reconnect and thrive. Highly recommended!"
-Mike & Shelby
How Enneagram Couples Coaching Works
Inquire
Sign up for an initial Enneagram Coaching Session
Learn
Discover how you and your partner's personality patterns align and where they get in the way of connection.
Expand
Expand beyond personality patterns with a tailored plan to address your specific relationship goals.
Experience
Experience your relationship deepen
and grow as you deepen and grow
My name is Wilder Heath
I’m an Enneagram Couples Coach, and I’m here to support you and your partner to identify the personality patterns of your Enneagram type that interfere with the connection that is already there.
