Helping couples reconnect through the power of
the Enneagram
My name is Wilder Heath
I’ve been a marriage and family therapist for over 15 years and have helped countless couples communicate better, find consensus, and grow together.
When I discovered the Enneagram, however, I realized how perfect of a tool it is to foster mutual growth in the relationship.
I have seen, first hand, how the Enneagram
can nurture a relationship.
After my wife (who is also a therapist) and I began to engage in personal work through the Enneagram, we noticed a significant improvement in our relationship satisfaction.
Knowing our type/subtypes and how to support each other in our growth gave us a clear idea of how to care for one another and identify the kinds of changes we can expect when our partner changes. This has led to deep and lasting emotional connection, as well as even more powerful personal growth.
I want to help couples see how
their personality patterns get in
the way of the deep connection
that is already there.
I offer insight into how personality patterns show up in the relationship, strategies for changing those patterns, and goals for individual and relationship growth.
Relevant Training
Certified Enneagram Coach
Graduated in 2022
Chestnut Paes Enneagram Academy
Dual focus in Marriage & Family Therapy and Drama Therapy
Antioch University
MA in Psychology
Level 2 training in Hakomi Method
Currently Enrolled
Seattle Hakomi Education Network
Some Things I Enjoy in My Spare Time
Photography
I love capturing moments where the world seems to slow down and I can feel the simple beauty of time momentarily stopped.
I particularly enjoy portrait, macro, and low light photography.
Graphic Novels
I’ve never been much of a Marvel or DC comic fan. I love intimate stories where the protagonist creates deep connections with others, deals with great hardship in order to survive, and discovers something about themselves that changes how they see their purpose in the world.
Fantasy
I enjoy watching TV shows, movies, and reading books cuddled up with my wife. Some of our favorite Sci/Fi and Fantasy series and films include: Game of Thrones, Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Harry Potter, Severance, and Avatar the Last Airbender. I’m currently reading Fourth Wing with my wife and loving it!